Speed dating with a twist · Amsterdam

Love at
first spark.

A night out for gay men in their 30s and 40s who are ready to meet someone for real. Mingle first, pick your Secret Crushes, then five dates lined up just for you.

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How it works

No awkward rotations with random strangers. Your night is built around who you actually click with.

1

Mingle

Grab a drink, look around, say hi. First impressions count.

2

Secret Crush

Pick up to 3 guys who caught your eye, privately on your phone. Each pick boosts your chances of a date together. Mutual? It's guaranteed.

3
Includes a Wild Spark

Five Sparks

Five short dates, matched on your answers and your crushes. One of them is a Wild Spark: someone you'd never have picked yourself.

4

Spark Card

At the end, say who you'd like to see again. Only mutual yeses become matches, and you get each other's contact by email.

Why Foudre

Nobody gets rejected in public

Your crushes and your Spark Card stay private. Only mutual interest is ever revealed.

Real conversations

Every date is set up on purpose, from what you told us when you signed up. Less small talk, more chemistry.

Also here for friends

Got along great but no romance? Add a Friend Crush. If it's mutual, we connect you too.

Ready for your spark?

Sign up in two minutes. Places are limited, so we'll send you your ticket link straight away.

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